Hey check out what I found! A link to Hostelworld.com's best 10 Hostels for women!! That's awesome!
I do a decent amount of solo travel and one of the concerns is always where I will stay. It needs to be budget and I don't mind hostels. Sometimes hostels offer single sex rooms but often they are mixed. Usually I don't mind too much, people are great and the men have always been nice. I've met some great people both men and women at hostels. However, once I walked in to my room and realized all the other people in the room were men and I was the only woman. It was fine but I was a bit uncomfortable with it. That only happened once. Another time I was at a hostel and the person at the front desk said, "I'll put you in the other room. I don't think anyone else will come but the other room that still has a bed is all men. I think you'd be more comfortable in the other one." Wasn't that nice of him??? Anyway, this link today features hostels that are only for women. There are no men that stay there. So there is no risk of sharing a room with only men. I just figured I would share it with my traveling friends.
http://blog.hostelbookers.com/hostel-reviews/top-hostels/womens-day/
I found this link of the http://www.journeywoman.com site. It's an AWESOME site for women who travel with friends or solo. Check it out too.
That's it for now. Have a wonderful day.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Thursday, March 24, 2011
I was lying in bed this morning thinking I should get up when I thought to myself, "That's what I need. I need to let God enter my heart and heal me." Now this doesn't seem super profound when I look back but in my daze of the morning it seemed to answer a lot of questions for me.
I've been having a rough time this last little while. Blah and tired has been the best way for me to describe how I am feeling but in a dark haze or a heavy feeling could be another description. Over the last few weeks I've been realizing how important it is to be honest with God about my failings and the fears that I have. I tend to focus a bit more on the fears because I don't like to admit that I fail - often. However, I've been working on going to God "naked without shame". I can't be afraid to tell Him everything, all the longings of my heart, the dreams, the fears and yes, even the failings that I have. I need to be open and honest with Him. In recent days I have realized how freeing that is. I've also been learning I need to make sure I have intimate relationships with my friends too. I need to have a select few people in my life who I do share some of those dreams, fears and faults with too. By not being authentic with others I have learned the hard way it can be very exhausting and tough on the mental health and spirit.
I don't think the whole world needs to know about every single failing we have or fear or dream for that matter. But I do think it's important to know it is ok to share those with someone. I always figured that would be a spouse but I'm 31 and still single. So does that mean I can't share with anyone? I don't think so. I think it means I have to look for trusted friends to share with and maybe have a few because one might be busy when I need them so I might need more than one person I can go to. It is a process to realize who these people in my life can be but it will all fall in to place.
The other thing I need is to trust God to fill my heart with love. He can do it. He can also heal the woundedness I have. I realized this morning how wounded I am. I have no idea why this morning I realized that, but I did. I realized I need to be in His presence and allow Him to fill me with His love.
When I read my e-mail this morning I discovered this quote: "
I've been having a rough time this last little while. Blah and tired has been the best way for me to describe how I am feeling but in a dark haze or a heavy feeling could be another description. Over the last few weeks I've been realizing how important it is to be honest with God about my failings and the fears that I have. I tend to focus a bit more on the fears because I don't like to admit that I fail - often. However, I've been working on going to God "naked without shame". I can't be afraid to tell Him everything, all the longings of my heart, the dreams, the fears and yes, even the failings that I have. I need to be open and honest with Him. In recent days I have realized how freeing that is. I've also been learning I need to make sure I have intimate relationships with my friends too. I need to have a select few people in my life who I do share some of those dreams, fears and faults with too. By not being authentic with others I have learned the hard way it can be very exhausting and tough on the mental health and spirit.
I don't think the whole world needs to know about every single failing we have or fear or dream for that matter. But I do think it's important to know it is ok to share those with someone. I always figured that would be a spouse but I'm 31 and still single. So does that mean I can't share with anyone? I don't think so. I think it means I have to look for trusted friends to share with and maybe have a few because one might be busy when I need them so I might need more than one person I can go to. It is a process to realize who these people in my life can be but it will all fall in to place.
The other thing I need is to trust God to fill my heart with love. He can do it. He can also heal the woundedness I have. I realized this morning how wounded I am. I have no idea why this morning I realized that, but I did. I realized I need to be in His presence and allow Him to fill me with His love.
When I read my e-mail this morning I discovered this quote: "
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Today is a New Day
Today I woke up feeling tired and blah. I am not sure there is another way to describe it, I just felt blah. On my way to work I promised myself I would go for a walk today. It was warmer outside today than it was yesterday and even if there was snow on the ground I decided I could handle it. In fact I decided I needed to handle it. I needed something to make me feel better and I hoped a walk would do it. I told to myself even a 10min walk would be ok, I just needed to get out there. So for lunch I had some soup and then off I went to walk to the coffee shop. I don't drink coffee but I needed a destination. It is much easier to walk to a destination when in reality you have no motivation to walk except for the reason of you know your body needs to move. I walked for about 5min and all of a sudden I caught myself smiling - YES smiling! I chuckled, I guess moving does do the body and mind some good.
On my walk back from the coffee shop I decided to start this blog today. I've been thinking about it for a while but I had not taken the time to do it yet. I needed to come up with a name and how was I going to do it. What was I going to write about? Who would want to read? There were a lot of questions but today I decided all those things would fall in to place.
A while back I wanted to start writing a book. I wanted to share my journey of being a single person in life and in the Catholic church. I also wanted to share what I have learned about Theology of the Body by Pope John Paul II and the single life and how it fits in to seeing my own inner and outer beauty - and yours too! (We are all so beautiful! But that's another blog posting) I wanted to share and help others with the lessons I have learned over the years. The thing is, I had no idea where to start writing a book and I wasn't even sure I had enough material to write a whole book. From what I hear a book takes a lot of pages! So, I have decided I will practice right here on the internet. I will simply write blogs and articles to share my journey in hopes God can use my stories to help others.
Thank you for joining me on this journey. I hope to hear a lot from you as I post my thoughts and processes. Here is a quote from a song that I love by David Thies, "I can't say it's going as planned, but still one beautiful journey." And that my friend is more than true! I may have woken up tired and blah this morning but tonight I look at the snow outside and love how bright it is. I look forward to meeting you along the path.
God Bless.
Check out David's site at davidthiestmusic.com
On my walk back from the coffee shop I decided to start this blog today. I've been thinking about it for a while but I had not taken the time to do it yet. I needed to come up with a name and how was I going to do it. What was I going to write about? Who would want to read? There were a lot of questions but today I decided all those things would fall in to place.
A while back I wanted to start writing a book. I wanted to share my journey of being a single person in life and in the Catholic church. I also wanted to share what I have learned about Theology of the Body by Pope John Paul II and the single life and how it fits in to seeing my own inner and outer beauty - and yours too! (We are all so beautiful! But that's another blog posting) I wanted to share and help others with the lessons I have learned over the years. The thing is, I had no idea where to start writing a book and I wasn't even sure I had enough material to write a whole book. From what I hear a book takes a lot of pages! So, I have decided I will practice right here on the internet. I will simply write blogs and articles to share my journey in hopes God can use my stories to help others.
Thank you for joining me on this journey. I hope to hear a lot from you as I post my thoughts and processes. Here is a quote from a song that I love by David Thies, "I can't say it's going as planned, but still one beautiful journey." And that my friend is more than true! I may have woken up tired and blah this morning but tonight I look at the snow outside and love how bright it is. I look forward to meeting you along the path.
God Bless.
Check out David's site at davidthiestmusic.com
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